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Why Complainers Fear Change

Updated: Feb 27, 2020

Taking Responsibility Requires Action:

When faced with an undesirable situation or circumstance, most of us avail ourselves of one of two obvious choices. We will either make changes or complain.

If we're honest we might admit that it's easier to bellyache and bemoan than is to change. This is especially true if there's company, eager to join the misery. But here's another reason why some choose to complain: Fear of Change.

To change means to evolve. And self-evolution is a process where we address the role we play in our own lives, taking accountability for the good, but especially for the bad. It also requires that we take action, making adjustments where needed. Change is work!

A good life filled with joy takes work, but the results are worth it. To criticize, condemn, or complain requires little effort and leads to little or no positive results. No one is implying life is without ups and downs, but when things turn down, you have an opportunity to turn it up. The question is, what do you really want?

If we want better, we'll start by asking ourselves what positive things we can contribute to an unfavorable situation to make it better, whether we can adjust our viewpoint, or in some circumstances, distance ourselves from the negativity.

Either you take Responsibility or become Responsible. In other words, if you don't like some aspect of your life, it's your responsibility to change it. If you do nothing but complain and you find that life remains miserable and unchanged...You are the one Responsible for it.

Life is Your Journey. You have the power to affect change, so instead of taking the easy route by complaining, take responsibility, make life joyful, be bold!

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